A few months after we were married, my wife Hyesuk and I moved from Korea to Fort Meade Maryland . It was challenging for her to adjust to a new culture. Imagine leaving your family, friends, language, job, and entire way of life behind. Fortunately, her English language skills, adventurous spirit, and the close friendship of a neighbor helped her adapt in record time. Brenda Ross was truly a blessing to our family from the first day we arrived. The help of a good friend makes all the difference when you’re trying to navigate in a new world. Hyesuk taught Brenda how to make Korean food, Brenda returned the favor, and I ate well.
Hyesuk took an immediate liking to American appliances. I laughed until my sides ached when she told me that, “I love my new Washdisher!” A stove with an oven was also new to her. At that time, most Koreans cooked over gas burners and some still used charcoal. Baking opened a brand new culinary world for her.
We’d only been in our new home a few weeks when I came home from work to find six pumpkin pies cooling on the dining room table. One by one, they disappeared as she visited five of our new neighbors. I was pleased when the door stayed shut and one pie remained. After dinner, Hyesuk served dessert and watched with interest as I took my first bite. There wasn’t any hope of masking the experience. The pie left my contorted mouth faster than it went in. HyeSuk quickly took a small bite, ran to the kitchen, and then ran out the door. Over the next half hour, I watched as the table once again held six pies.
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